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What Is Victim Blaming From A Survivor's Mouth

What Is Victim Blaming From A Survivor's Mouth

We hear much about not victim blaming, the advise is to refrain from telling victims to "get over it", "to forgive and forget", "it takes two to tango" and all the invalidating empty platitudes people throw out.

You just feel worse each time you hear it, then it's the mental gymnastics of being polite to overly confident lay people who think they "helped" you. 

Here are some other things often not mentioned. 

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