Asian Femifesto

Why I Boycotted Male Drag & Got Into Female Drag

Why I Boycotted Male Drag & Got Into Female Drag

The behaviour of these pseudo women reading other male drag queens, laughing about their body size, facial beauty, make up skills and artistic talents wasn't directed at them as men but at the superficial facade of a woman they each wore as a joke in and of itself.

It is using the visibility of women as a tool, just like how we're expected to be used as sex providers, valued as pretty property ready to change hands from male slaveowner to male slaveowner. Drag legitimised this idea that women and the associated femininity are exactly what women are only good for, empty ornamental shells that must be painted and put on display instead of organically laying on beach sand without interference. 

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Why Choice Is The New Pretty Please

Why Choice Is The New Pretty Please

She would have to resort to feeling good about her mundane choices because the only victories she can really rely on are the tiny ones, the unfortunate result that many older feminists know about, one compromise becomes another, a small gateway becomes a floodgate of never-ending demands, it is only by not compromising anything, holding down the fort like radical feminists have done that any change is possible, it is only by being truthful to oneself, what is really ours and what isn't, what is out of our control and what is within it that we find peace within our hearts, that we can redefine success in an honest way that is authentic, self loving and other loving. 
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The Vagina Envy Of Misogyny In Drag

The Vagina Envy Of Misogyny In Drag

Trans activism turned misogynistic is real.

I just quit an online group after being attacked and called transphobic. I shared a friend's Facebook post, an article by Skylar Baker-Jordan about homophobic, anti-woman trans activism on a supposedly inclusive online safe place. When I shared that, I made it clear I have indeed encountered trans women bullying, expecting me to be subservient while wanting acceptance at the same time, I find the double standards hypocritical and unacceptable.

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